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Forget Recognition, Always Do Your Best

October 1st, 2008 by Jack Rugile - 6 Comments - Posted in Inspiration, Personal Growth

No RecognitionEveryone enjoys receiving recognition or some sort of credit for doing a high quality job. It is so easy to get lazy and neglect the quality of some tasks, or not even do them at all when recognition is not given. We need to remember that it is important to go that extra mile, even when there is no one waiting at the finish line to congratulate us or pat us on the back.

I have always seen myself as two different people. No, I don’t have multiple personality disorder… “yes you do”… no I don’t! Shh. Anyway, one person is living out my life, making all the decisions and thinking all of the thoughts. The other person is hidden on the inside, deep inside, judging and watching my actions.

In that sense, I never feel alone. I never feel like I can get away with anything bad, immoral, cheap, or disrespectful. Not that I would want to, I am just saying that I can’t. That inner part of me is always watching my every move, making sure I am doing the best I can and guiding me to do the right thing. That other person sees what you do and appreciates it. That other person will always give you recognition.

I have learned a lot from my dad. Here is a story from my childhood about him.

Growing Up In Basalt, Colorado

When I was in grade school, I was always baffled by my dad. We lived in a small town in the Rocky Mountains with no more than 4,000 people. Downtown was a single street a few blocks long with stores on either side. There was not much more to it.

About one or two days out of the month, my dad would wake up incredibly early, fill up his wheel barrow with a shovel, broom, garbage bags, and other miscellaneous tools. He would walk from our house, to downtown, and then to the surrounding areas and clean up the entire town. He would pick up trash, sweep dirt, shovel gravel, you name it.

No one ever knew that it was him who cleaned the town. They would just be walking down the street one day and see that it was clean. He never received any credit. He never received any recognition. But yet, he kept on doing it every month.

Why would he do all this for no reward or credit? I thought it was such a waste of time. It made no sense to me as a kid. But now that I am older, I am seeing the importance of his actions. He did a great thing for the town, and they were appreciative of it, even though they never knew who did it. These are the kind of things I am talking about.

Encouragement From Me To You

Find a deed that you can do, whether people see it or not. It does not matter how big or how small. Do it at home, at your job, in nature, wherever you feel it is needed.

Just because you do a good deed and don’t get credit for it, it does not mean that people aren’t affected by your efforts. My dad affected the entire town in a positive way. That warm feeling you get from doing your best and helping others even when no is watching, should be reward enough. Be that silent hero! Walk away from that task calmly with a grin on your face, knowing you did your best. Make the world a better place, even if no one will ever know it was you.

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6 Comments on “Forget Recognition, Always Do Your Best”

  1. Marelisa October 2nd, 2008 1:20 am

    This is a great post Jack. I once read a quote along the lines of the following: “We’re all divided souls; schizophrenia is not so much how many voices there are in your head, but how well those voices get along with each other.” :-) I know what you mean about there being an observer that watches your ego and keeps it in check. And that story about your dad was just awesome!

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  2. Jack Rugile October 2nd, 2008 10:35 am

    I am glad you enjoyed it :) I love my dad so much, he has taught me so many valuable lessons about kindness, motivation, and common courtesy. I like that quote, describes it pretty well! I am glad that other person exists within most of us. If it did not, then this world would be a crazy place. Well… crazier than it already is.

    - Jack Rugile
    Simple Sapien

  3. Spiritlight October 2nd, 2008 3:28 pm

    Wow! Inspiring, your dad did a good thing and learnd you some things to I bet.

  4. Ron@TheWisdomJournal October 3rd, 2008 10:49 am

    Great post, Jack. You know, if people would quit worrying about who gets the credit or blame for things, we could solve a whole lot of the world’s problems.

    That’s a wonderful story about your dad.

    Ron@TheWisdomJournals last blog post..The Best of The Wisdom Journal - September 2008

  5. Jack Rugile October 3rd, 2008 3:50 pm

    @ Spiritlight - Thanks for your comment! I would love to read your blog, but I cannot :( Wrong language.

    @ Ron - Thanks Ron, that means a lot coming from you. I have learned the most important lessons in my life from my family. I am so grateful to have had all of them in my life. Been enjoying your RSS feed btw, thanks for stopping by!

    - Jack Rugile
    Simple Sapien

  6. Andrea Suarez October 28th, 2008 11:28 pm

    Hi Jack! I just wanted to congratulate you, this is a wonderful site and such a positive way to touch the lives of others… I’ve enjoyed everything you’ve posted, but this particular post reflects so much of who you are…
    I have personally had the luck to have met your dad. He remains to be one of the most important people in my life. I love, respect and admire so many things about him… he’s so full of love and is one of the most caring people on top of the earth. I can already see that you are following his footsteps, but are not afraid to be yourself.
    Keep up the good work; in this world of indifference, this is just the kind of insight we all need.